The server for this page has become unreliable and frequently is down so I made anouther webpage. The new site has some new content.Wendy's page
I
tested HIV positive while
pregnant with my second son Justin in 1992. At that time
doctors where not offering
treatment to prevent mother to baby HIV transmission.
No other illness in the world comes with such
a risk of prejudice as HIV. The stigma attached to being HIV positive
is less now than it was years ago, unfortunately many people still
remain ignorant. Ignorance is HIV's best friend and until a cure
is found we can only hope that the education and prevention we teach
will help stop the spread of HIV and the discrimination that affects
persons with HIV.
My son Justin passed away in 1997. My husband
Michael passed away in 2001. My oldest son Aaron is uninfected.
I have a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend William. He is a
great friend with tremendous love and compassion.
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My
advice, try to stay in the moment. Don't live in the past or the
future. It's tough to do but every time you get there, you get to truly
live. Be optimistic. Take charge of your medical care be assertive
and get informed in your treatment. Doctors can and do make mistakes.
Celebrate your life. Allow yourself to be silly sometimes, it
will lengthen your years and brighten your life. Take care of your
body.
Eat right, get plenty of rest and eliminate as much stress and drama
from your life as
possible.
Before HIV was a part of your life you made decisions, faced
challenges, and
found what was important to you. You will now, too. Even very sick or
very burdened people have remarkable spirits, inspiring creativity,
the capacity to cope with illness and mortality, and the drive to find
meaning in thier lives.
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My Links
Wendy's
Page Chat Room
About
HIV: Defines
HIV/AIDS,
modes of transmission and precautions.
Resources: You
will find
links
to other HIV webpages, medical pages, testing resources and much more.
Date
& Chat: Many of the
links I have are heterosexual based sites. Chats, message boards,
personal ads and more.
My
Photos: Pictures
taken
between 1993 and 2008. Most of the photos are of me but include some of
my children and late husband.
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